Yesterday marked a major milestone in our move to Springfield. Movers from Lewis Moving Company in Richmond came to our house to load all of our heavy furniture onto the PODS (Portable On Demand Storage) we have rented. I know most of you have never been in our house, so trust me when I say that our stairs are VERY steep and narrow. There is no way Gina and I could have moved our furniture down those stairs without breaking something, including ourselves.
If you aren't familiar with PODS, they are large containers that get dropped off at your house, you load them yourself (or hire movers), then their truck will come pick it up and deliver it wherever you want. This is a nice option for people who want to take their time loading their stuff, or for folks like us who need some time between when the house is cleared out and when we actually move. Anyway, this is not a PODS commercial. We are just very impressed with how this service works. The only furniture left in our house is our bed and two cribs. We still have several boxes that I will transport in a large truck in a couple of weeks, but for the most part the house is empty.
Sam and Nate handled the moving day like champs. They stayed in their room playing most of the time, and they even managed to squeeze in a nap in the midst of all the chaos. Their favorite part of the day was when they finally got to come downstairs and play in the empty rooms. The house now has this beautiful echo that is perfect for yelling, squealing, clapping hands and stomping feet.
The rest of this week and the next will be spent cleaning, packing more boxes and getting the house ready for our renters. We are by no means done with our move, but yesterday saw a major piece get checked off the list.
In case you are wondering about this post's title ...
Wednesday, July 01, 2009
Thursday, June 25, 2009
Let's Go Red Sox!
Gina, the boys and I were in Northern Virginia earlier this week, which meant we got to see Katie, Joe and Ella. This past weekend was Ella's birthday, and we were able to give her some birthday presents. The boys gave her a Strawberry Shortcake t-shirt and scratch-n-sniff book. Gina and I gave her a book about the U.S. presidents. I know, you are probably thinking this is not an appropriate gift for two-year old. But Ella is not your average toddler because she is VERY smart! And at the rate she is going, she will probably be president one day. Personally, I think she will love the book, and I know Joe will love reading it to her.
It's one thing to attend a game at Fenway and see how fired up the fans get over baseball. You would expect that from a home game, though not all teams enjoy such loyal fans (the Nationals have a way to go in that category), but Tuesday night was all the proof I needed to confirm that Red Sox Nation is indeed alive and well.
Friday, May 29, 2009
Floridays
Gina, Sam, Nate and I just returned from a week in Florida with my parents. This was a great way to relax and celebrate our graduation from UVA. The week started out very rainy, but soon enough the sun came out and we were able to get out and see some of the sights. Sam and Nate got to swim in their very first wading pool, and I'm pretty sure this will be something they want to do again.
While we were there, my mom and dad celebrated their 39th wedding anniversary! They went to a dinner show featuring Arabian horses. Gina and I stayed home and rested, which was nice considering how busy the last few months have been.
The best man from our wedding, David, and his family live in Orlando, so they came over to see us one evening. Sam and Nate were amazed by the big boys, and we had a nice time talking about old times and having dinner.
We also got to go to a water park, Hurricane Harbor, and the beach. Sam and Nate didn't know exactly what to do at the water park at first, but they got the hang of it and had fun playing in the wave pool (the edge of it, at least, where the waves are VERY shallow) and the sand. They caught on to the beach a little better, and this time they had some beach toys to play with in the sand. I did learn that next time we need to have TWO shovels!
Other activities included going to a Japanese Steak House, seeing Downtown Disney and learning how to sweep the floor. OK, that last one would be better categorized as "training." But Sam thought it was fun, which is the same tactic my dad used on me for mowing the lawn.
Overall, we had a great time and can't wait to go back. We are so grateful that GiGi and PaPa could be there with us (and made the whole trip possible!). Sam and Nate are now patiently waiting for their next fun vacation!
Friday, May 22, 2009
Pomp and Circumstance
On May 16 and 17, Gina and I walked through the Final Exercises at the University of Virginia. In all, we attended 5 different graduation ceremonies (my hooding, my graduation, Gina's hooding, her graduation, and Walking the Lawn) and 3 parties! Gina's parents got in Thursday evening and my parents came in Friday afternoon. My sister and her family came in on Saturday, and we had a lot of friends share the special day(s) with us as well. The weekend was hectic, exciting, relieving and a little sad. Personally, I have loved living in Charlottesville and attending the university. I can't say it was always fun or immediately rewarding, but we stuck to our program and finished what we came to accomplish. I'm sure someday all of this will sink in and I will think to myself, "How did we do that?" For now, we are happy to be done and have loved looking through all the pictures and reflecting on the moment. I have included some images from graduation weekend, but there are many, many more you can see here:
http://picasaweb.google.com/curbyalexander/UVAGraduation
Nathaniel does NOT want the party to end!
Monday, May 11, 2009
Happy Mother's Day
Gina was able to spend her second Mother's Day with the boys, and we all had a great day. For starters, we all went to church (which is what we do every Sunday), but this time we were almost on time. This may not sound like a big deal, but trust me, this is huge. Pastor Bill prepared a special Mother's Day service, and it was great. The boys got to hang out in the nursery for most of the service, but they did get to sing some of the praise songs with us in big church. I'm pretty sure they will both be great singers.
After church we came home, ate lunch, then took long naps. I slept about 40 minutes, but Gina and the boys slept for almost 3 hours. I was able to get all of the laundry folded in that time, as well as make a few phone calls and watch most of the Lakers/Rockets game. Once everyone was up, we went to the park to play for about an hour. The weather was really nice, and everyone had a great time.
The boys and I got Gina some new beach clothes to take to Orlando in a couple of weeks. She has been wanting some new things, and Sam and Nate sure know how to get their mom what she likes. I also made her one my famous fruit smoothies, which Gina is convinced caused the boys to be so big when they were born.
The day was very special and filled with lots of laughs and relaxation. More than anything, we wanted Gina to know how much she is loved and cherished by the three guys in the house. She fits into motherhood like it was tailor-made for her, which we know it was because it was God who made it all possible. Gina pours herself into Samuel and Nathaniel, not only providing for their physical needs, but nurturing their spiritual growth as well. Every night before we put the boys in their cribs for the night, we spend a few minutes praying together as a family. We can't always predict what will happen during the day, especially with twin 15-month old boys, but we can take time at the end of the day to thank the Lord for His blessings and protection over us. After the boys are in their cribs, I usually speed downstairs to get dinner and watch Jeopardy, but Gina will stay with them for a few more minutes and gently sing hymns and praises to the boys as they fall asleep. In the same way, my prayer for Gina is that, at the end of the day when she puts her head down and reflects on all the day's events, the Lord would gently sing over her and affirm His provision for the role he has given her. For while a mother's work is never done, the source that fuels that work is eternal and never runs dry.
After church we came home, ate lunch, then took long naps. I slept about 40 minutes, but Gina and the boys slept for almost 3 hours. I was able to get all of the laundry folded in that time, as well as make a few phone calls and watch most of the Lakers/Rockets game. Once everyone was up, we went to the park to play for about an hour. The weather was really nice, and everyone had a great time.
The boys and I got Gina some new beach clothes to take to Orlando in a couple of weeks. She has been wanting some new things, and Sam and Nate sure know how to get their mom what she likes. I also made her one my famous fruit smoothies, which Gina is convinced caused the boys to be so big when they were born.
The day was very special and filled with lots of laughs and relaxation. More than anything, we wanted Gina to know how much she is loved and cherished by the three guys in the house. She fits into motherhood like it was tailor-made for her, which we know it was because it was God who made it all possible. Gina pours herself into Samuel and Nathaniel, not only providing for their physical needs, but nurturing their spiritual growth as well. Every night before we put the boys in their cribs for the night, we spend a few minutes praying together as a family. We can't always predict what will happen during the day, especially with twin 15-month old boys, but we can take time at the end of the day to thank the Lord for His blessings and protection over us. After the boys are in their cribs, I usually speed downstairs to get dinner and watch Jeopardy, but Gina will stay with them for a few more minutes and gently sing hymns and praises to the boys as they fall asleep. In the same way, my prayer for Gina is that, at the end of the day when she puts her head down and reflects on all the day's events, the Lord would gently sing over her and affirm His provision for the role he has given her. For while a mother's work is never done, the source that fuels that work is eternal and never runs dry.
Thursday, April 30, 2009
Much news to share
I know it has been quite awhile since the last post, and we have so much good news to share. Nate's about to burst with excitement!
First, Gina and I officially turned in the final versions of our dissertations this week. I know what you are thinking, "Didn't they already do that?" Well, getting from the dissertation defense to submitting the final version is a pretty lengthy and tedious process. At the defense, all the committee members make recommendations about the things they would like to be revised, and then the doc student has go back and make all those changes. It involves more meetings, more revisions and lots of reformatting the table of contents. Well, that process if finally over for both of us. I handed my final version in on Tuesday, and Gina turned hers in today. This is a huge relief, and I think we will finally be able to relax this weekend without this hanging over our heads.
The second item of news is that I recently won an award as the Outstanding Graduate Teaching Assistant for my department in the Curry School of Education. Now, it's not really in my nature to brag about winning an award, but it is part of my prideful nature to feel the need to explain that just because my job title is that of Teaching Assistant, I want everyone to know I don't actually assist anyone with their teaching. I am the instructor for the course, though there have been some times recently when I wish I had an assistant to help with the grading. Pride aside, I am honored to have received this award, and I stand in the great company of those who received the award before me. Let me end this segment by saying, humbly, that if I don't win the University-wide teaching award, it's a sham and definitely rigged. Just kidding. :)
The final, and most exciting, piece of news is that I recently accepted a faculty position at the University of Illinois at Springfield. The job search process has been, by far, the most stressful and time-consuming thing for us this semester. Dissertation, smishertation. First, we had to search through countless job postings. Then we had to narrow it down to jobs I thought I might be a) qualified to perform and b) in a place to which I would want to move my family. The next step was filling out the application materials. This is not as simple as filling out a "job application" and attaching a resume. Each position, and I am being honest, has a completely different set of materials they want turned in. We continued this process for months. I got phone interviews with 5 schools, three of which brought me on campus for a "campus interview." Two of the schools offered the position to someone else, but UIS liked me and asked me to come on board. We are very grateful to have gotten a job offer and are looking forward to starting our next adventure in Illinois. Springfield, as you may know, is the capital city and was where Abraham Lincoln studied law. We will be moving from one president's city to that of another. 3 for 16. TJ for AL. Tall with red hair for tall with a funny beard. I think you get the point.
Thank you all for your prayers and support during this busy time. We still have one item left on our list, which is to sell our house. Just like everything else, we know that God has someone out there who needs a place to live and wants to buy a house near UVA. If you are planning on moving to Charlottesville anytime soon, have we got a deal for you. Sam and Nate have asked me to conclude by letting them give a shout out to their beloved UVA.
First, Gina and I officially turned in the final versions of our dissertations this week. I know what you are thinking, "Didn't they already do that?" Well, getting from the dissertation defense to submitting the final version is a pretty lengthy and tedious process. At the defense, all the committee members make recommendations about the things they would like to be revised, and then the doc student has go back and make all those changes. It involves more meetings, more revisions and lots of reformatting the table of contents. Well, that process if finally over for both of us. I handed my final version in on Tuesday, and Gina turned hers in today. This is a huge relief, and I think we will finally be able to relax this weekend without this hanging over our heads.
The second item of news is that I recently won an award as the Outstanding Graduate Teaching Assistant for my department in the Curry School of Education. Now, it's not really in my nature to brag about winning an award, but it is part of my prideful nature to feel the need to explain that just because my job title is that of Teaching Assistant, I want everyone to know I don't actually assist anyone with their teaching. I am the instructor for the course, though there have been some times recently when I wish I had an assistant to help with the grading. Pride aside, I am honored to have received this award, and I stand in the great company of those who received the award before me. Let me end this segment by saying, humbly, that if I don't win the University-wide teaching award, it's a sham and definitely rigged. Just kidding. :)
The final, and most exciting, piece of news is that I recently accepted a faculty position at the University of Illinois at Springfield. The job search process has been, by far, the most stressful and time-consuming thing for us this semester. Dissertation, smishertation. First, we had to search through countless job postings. Then we had to narrow it down to jobs I thought I might be a) qualified to perform and b) in a place to which I would want to move my family. The next step was filling out the application materials. This is not as simple as filling out a "job application" and attaching a resume. Each position, and I am being honest, has a completely different set of materials they want turned in. We continued this process for months. I got phone interviews with 5 schools, three of which brought me on campus for a "campus interview." Two of the schools offered the position to someone else, but UIS liked me and asked me to come on board. We are very grateful to have gotten a job offer and are looking forward to starting our next adventure in Illinois. Springfield, as you may know, is the capital city and was where Abraham Lincoln studied law. We will be moving from one president's city to that of another. 3 for 16. TJ for AL. Tall with red hair for tall with a funny beard. I think you get the point.
Thank you all for your prayers and support during this busy time. We still have one item left on our list, which is to sell our house. Just like everything else, we know that God has someone out there who needs a place to live and wants to buy a house near UVA. If you are planning on moving to Charlottesville anytime soon, have we got a deal for you. Sam and Nate have asked me to conclude by letting them give a shout out to their beloved UVA.
Monday, April 06, 2009
... and then there were two.
Last Thursday (as you can tell from the picture), Gina successfully defended her dissertation and is now Dr. Nurse. I have been telling her for 4 years that one simply cannot be both a doctor AND a nurse, but she has defied the odds and proven me wrong (once again). Sam, Nate and I are so very proud of her and know how much work she put into her manuscripts. Her advisor was quoted as saying, "Never in my years of doing this have I seen manuscripts this thorough and well put together." Yay, Mommy! Way to go!
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